In an interview with Us Weekly forward of the discharge of her memoir, My Good Facet, Shay revealed the place she stands with Davies and what she plans to inform their daughter, Summer time Moon, in regards to the dishonest scandal.

“I simply need her to be with somebody who treats her with respect,” Shay advised the outlet earlier than sharing how she plans to inform the now-4-year-old in regards to the incident.

“Fortunately, we’ve a little bit of time to nonetheless determine that out. We’ll speak to our particular person therapists, do some extra periods collectively and determine how we’ll have these robust conversations together with her, particularly about her two older siblings,” the Vanderpump Guidelines alum added of Davies’ kids from his first marriage. “She’s solely 4 years outdated.”

Shay broke the information about Davies’ affair in an excerpt from the e book revealed by Glamour on July 10, the place she revealed that Davies cheated on her again in 2020 whereas she was pregnant with their daughter.

Whereas Davies got here clear two years after the actual fact, the admission was nonetheless “stunning” for Shay who mentioned she felt “sick” to her abdomen over the thought that her husband would betray her in that manner whereas they had been anticipating their first youngster collectively.

“I remained in a state of paralyzed shock as he confessed that he’d cheated on me two years prior, once we had been residing in San Diego in the course of the pandemic, whereas I used to be pregnant with Summer time,” she wrote within the Glamour excerpt of the confession. “I felt utterly sick to my abdomen.”

On the time, Shay mentioned that Davies advised her he had been battling the thought of turning into a dad once more and let that worry lead him down a harmful path.

“He was scared about being a father once more, particularly about whether or not he even deserved to be,” she wrote. “And he selected to take care of it by sleeping with another person.”

“I take advantage of the phrase ‘selected’ as a result of it was very a lot a acutely aware determination. Nobody twisted his arm or dragged him into mattress,” Shay continued.

As for what made him come clear, the 40-year-old actuality star mentioned Scandoval had loads to do with it.

“[After Scandoval], he was nervous one thing would leak. I used to be grateful it got here from him. It took him a very long time to inform me as a result of he was afraid. I can have sympathy now and perceive that he felt like he did not deserve a second likelihood at being a father,” Shay advised Us Weekly of Davies, who has a strained relationship along with his two older youngsters from a earlier relationship, who stay in Australia with their mom. “That actually broke my coronary heart for him, that he felt like he wanted to sabotage one thing so wonderful as a result of he did not deserve it. We will not let our previous outline who we’re, and I did not need him to put on that for the remainder of his life.”

As for the place they stand now, two years post-confession, Shay mentioned day-after-day is a piece in progress.

“It takes work each single day. I’ll eternally have insecurities. Simply the opposite day, I noticed him swipe and delete a textual content, and I am like, ‘What was that?’ And he is like, ‘Significantly, Scheana?’” she shared. “However I genuinely imagine he would by no means do something like that once more. I do belief him. I’ve forgiven him. … We have put within the work in {couples} remedy. Now we have a really open line of communication. I need to present those that in case you really love somebody, a mistake from their previous would not should outline the way forward for your relationship.”

And whereas it would not make it any much less painful, Shay mentioned she looks like she bought her “karma” after her 2006 affair with Eddie Cibrian, who was married to Brandi Glanville on the time.

“It actually felt like I bought my karma,” Shay advised the outlet. “Did I deserve for [Brock to cheat on me]? No, however I advised myself that I did.”

My Good Facet hits cabinets July 22.